My Ways Are Not Your Ways Syllabus                                         obcmw8

OBC                    My Ways Are Not Your Ways              Lesson 8


God’s way is walking in forgiveness.                        Man’s way is taking revenge
 
Isaiah 55:8 & 9
For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.”
 
In this life we all, at times, offend others, and sometimes we are offended.  God’s answer
to offense is forgiveness.   Man’s way to deal with offense is often to seek revenge.  We will look at the scriptures to see what they teach about forgiveness and revenge, or taking vengeance.
 
1. Matthew 6:12,    And ______________ us our debts, as we __________________our debtors.”
 
What is the “debt” of which this passage speaks?”___________
 
2. How often did Jesus tell Peter in Matthew 18:21-22  that we should we forgive our brother if he/she sins against us?_____________________________________________________________________
 
3. Mark 11:25-26,    “And when ye stand praying, __________if ye have ought  against any,   that your Father also which is in heaven may ____________ you your ___________________.   But if ye do not ____________,  neither will your Father which is in heaven ___________________ your trespasses.”

 
This passage shows that our forgiveness of other is imperative if God is to forgive us.
 
4. Luke 17:3,   "Take heed to yourselves:   If thy brother  _____________  against thee,   ________  him;   and if he repent,  ___________  him.
 
5.   Read Matthew 18:23-35 and tell how this story of the servant applies to us today.

 

Now we will examine some passages that speak of taking vengeance or seeking revenge when we have been wronged.  Let's see who has the right to avenge wrongs.
 
6.   Romans 12:19,  “Dearly beloved,  __________not yourselves,  but rather give place unto wrath:  for it is written, ______________ _______ ____________;  I will repay, saith the ______________.”
 
7.   I Peter 3:9, “Not rendering __________ for __________, or ____________________ for railing:  but contrariwise ____________;  knowing that ye are there unto called , that ye should inherit a _________________.”
 
8.   Why is it a good reason to allow God to take vengeance, rather than for man to take vengeance?
 
Gods’ way is to forgive those who sin against us.   If we are in a conflict with another, we are to go in humility and speak to them and try to work things out.  If we would do this in a loving kind way, how many marriages might be repaired, how many friendships mended, and how many church splits prevented?   We can see the wisdom of God’s word. We can see that in taking our own vengeance, not only are we disobeying God's commands, but also we might make wrong judgments and assumptions.  God is all knowing and he knows the hearts of men. He knows the motives and not just the actions of others. God’s ways and thoughts are higher than our thoughts and ways.
 
Thank you for your participation in this study.  I hope the study has been beneficial to you. 
 
Please commit to memory the following passage:

 
Isaiah 55:8 & 9
For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.”
 
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