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LOVE
By Billie Duty
(Since we are women, I am going to write this in the girl’s/woman’s view)
What is the definition for Love? If we go to the dictionary, we will find many different definitions for the word Love. The world today has a very different meaning of love than the Bible teaches us.
I think that most in the world mistake love for infatuation. Most think of the butterfly feelings in the stomach when they see a guy is love.
Sometimes in marriages that are in trouble we may hear one spouse say to the other, “I do not love you anymore”. Does biblical love end?
What kind of love did God want for those who marry?
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,… (Ephesians 5:25 ) Looking at this verse we see that the love of the husband goes farther than butterfly feelings.
So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. (Ephesians 5:28) Love his wife as he loves his own body!
The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, (Titus 2:3-4 KJ)
These verses all show us that there is a lot more to love than the world seems to know. The older women are to teach the younger women to love their husbands. So this love has to be taught, it is not just feelings of excitement.
And Jesus answered and said to them,… “But from the beginning of the creation, God ‘made them male and female.’ ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’; so then they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” (Mark 10:5-9 ; also see Gen. 2:23-25; Matt. 19:4-6)
When two decide to become one in marriage, they must know that the exciting feelings that they feel for one another will subside, what then? They must understand that they are not just in love with one another, to fall out of love. God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16). A married couple must be willing to commit to this love. The love that God wants between a husband and his wife is commitment!
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